Wedding Traditions

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Wedding Traditions

Here in Northern Ireland, there are many wedding traditions and old wives tales that have been passed down from generations of brides to brides-to-be, many of which are still carried out today. The most common one would be from the rhyme…

“Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a lucky sixpence for my shoe”.

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Many people forget the last line but it can be quite an important one especially in today’s economic society. So what does this rhyme mean?

  • Something old – this represents continuity with the bride’s family and lets her know that they will always be there for her. Examples are: Mums bracelet or granny’s pearls
  • Something new – this represents hope for the future and a fresh start. Most brides opt to use their dress or shoes as their “something new”.
  • Something borrowed – this is normally borrowed from a happily married couple so that the marital bliss will pass on to the bride. Examples could be a brooch pinned inside your dress or a veil or tiara
  • Something blue – this represents love, fidelity and purity. Many brides go for a blue bow on their garter or have blue ribbon stitched into their dress
  • Silver sixpence – this is not normally followed but is something that you should think about as it is said to represent financial security!

Here are some more of my favourite wedding traditions…

Wedding veil – The tradition of a bride wearing a veil was thought to be to hide the bride’s beauty and ward off evil spirits or another explanation is that during the times of arranged marriages the bride’s face would be covered until the groom had committed to the marriage

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Wedding bouquet – It is thought that the throwing of the wedding bouquet was introduced from America and it is believed that whoever catches the bouquet will be next to be married

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Positions during the ceremony – The bride traditionally stands to the groom’s left during the ceremony, because in the past it was believed that the groom needed his right hand free to fight off other men

Tiered cakes – The custom of tiered cakes came from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over a stack of cakes without knocking it over and when Queen Victoria used white icing on her wedding cake it became known as Royal icing

Over the threshold – The Wedding tradition of the groom carrying his bride over the threshold was said to protect her from evil spirits that may be inside

Stag party – It is believed that stag parties were first held by ancient Spartan soldiers, who kissed their bachelor days goodbye with a wild party

Wearing pearls – Some people believe that pearls represent future tears and are a bad sign. However, others believe the wearing of pearls takes the place of the bride’s real tears meaning that she’ll have a happy married life

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Favours – Traditionally, five wrapped sugared almonds would be given representing fertility, longevity, wealth, health and happiness. These days couples are more adventurous and give things like miniatures, candles, chocolates, flower seeds and lottery tickets

The giving of a horseshoe – This tradition dates back to the Victorian period, and it’s purpose was to bring good luck to the newlyweds for the duration of their lives together

Tying the knot – The tradition of tying the wrists of the bride and groom with twine signified the bond of marriage and this continues today in marriages with the use of sashes which are placed over the principal’s wrists

Some other wedding traditions from Ireland are not so common today, these include:

  • It was said to be good luck if a newly married couple saw three magpies after the ceremony
  • After the wedding ceremony, it was important that a man and not a woman be the first to wish joy to the new bride
  • Irish men were known for getting cold feet on their wedding day so once the bride and groom were in the church, the guests would lock the door to keep the groom inside to make sure he went through with the ceremony

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And a much observed tradition is the Wedding toast – raising a glass to the heath and happiness of the newly wedded couple. Here is a lovely traditional Irish toast…

“Friends and relatives, so fond and dear, ’tis our greatest pleasure to have you here. When many years this day has passed, fondest memories will always last. So we drink a cup of Irish mead and ask God’s blessing in your hour of need”

The guests respond:

“On this special day, our wish to you, the goodness of the old, the best of the new. God bless you both who drink this mead, may it always fill your every need.”

Paul Crawford

Wedding Photographer Paul Crawford

Paul is married to Patricia and the proud Dad to 2 fantastic sons.

He has been a full-time professional photographer since 1990 and been privileged to have been asked to photograph well over 1300 weddings since then.

He worked in his own High Street Photography Studios up until December 2010 when he decided to downsize and work from home. He now splits his time between running Photography Courses and Workshops and Wedding Photography, limiting himself to 30 weddings a year to maintain the quality and high level of customer service to each of his couples.

Based in Ballyclare, Northern Ireland

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